Dying for a Cigarette

The title of this post Dying for a Cigarette can be put in two different forms.  It can be used as a statement or a question. 

Dying for a Cigarette.

I have used the statement “I am dying for a cigarette” hundreds of times during the years that I fed my nicotine addiction.  And at the time that I made those statements I believed that if I didn’t get a smoke or a nicotine fix I actually would expire by some terrible unknown, unexplainable, mind blowing phenomenon.  Or, at the least, I would do some unlawful act, such as killing someone, that it would end my life and existence as I knew it at that time.

Little did I know that the statement “Dying for a Cigarette” would have such a traumatic and dramatic effect on me and my life?

Eventually after over twenty years of smoking and a number of attempts to quit smoking I was finally successful.  In 1980 I quit smoking “cold turkey”.  This time the quit wasn’t as hard as I had made all of the former attempts to quit.  Notice I use the term “I made” because that is the way it was.  In my earlier attempts to quit I was convinced that it would be hard and it was because I believed it would be.  In my final and last attempt I told myself that I could do this no matter what.  I decided that I would quit for good this time because I could.  And I did.

Dying for a Cigarette?

Three years after I quit smoking I was diagnosed with smoking induced lung cancer and had to have my left lung removed.  I was very fortunate because they got all of the cancer with the entire lung.  I did not have to have chemotherapy or radiation treatments.  I almost lost my life and fulfilled the statement “Dying for a Cigarette”. 

Tobacco and lung cancer have had a profound effect on my life.  Use of tobacco caused me to have lung cancer.  But I have not let either, tobacco or lung cancer, completely define my life.  And you don’t have to either.

Yesterday, March 28, 2010, I celebrated my 70th birthday.  Thirty years after I quit smoking I am still doing well.  There is life after tobacco use and I am living proof that quitting smoking can make a difference in one’s life and well being.

If you think that you can quit smoking take my word for it you can if you believe that you can.

I tell my story about my nicotine addiction and what I went through to beat it at http://www.quitterscanbewinners.com/

You can get my free ebook on How to stop smoking forever or Simply be Tobacco Free by clicking here http://www.simply-be-tobacco-free.com/

Thanks for visiting and good luck.

      

BENEFITS OF NOT SMOKING

 Hello,

It has been almost thirty years since I laid down that pack of cigarettes and just quit smoking.  It was easier than I thought it would be.  Oh I will admit that I had a few cravings that would cause me some discomfort and urges to have just one more cigarette.  But I had developed a stronger dislike for the habit, (what I called it, at that time).  I did not know that it was an addiction to nicotine and not a habit.  I just realized that it was no longer a pleasure to smoke.  It was an activity that had been causing me all sorts of different health problems and to be honest the effort and incentive to smoke was not as strong as the desire to quit.    

 

That smoking habit (addiction) caused me more work than it gave pleasure.  I felt the need to have another cigarette immediately after the last one that I had smoked.  That feeling was a direct effect of the nicotine in my system that required more and more nicotine to satisfy my cravings and urges.  The drained, irritated, anxious feelings that I had when I tried to suppress that urge to smoke.  I had no idea that with each and every cigarette that I smoked I was reintroducing nicotine into my system and that was the true cause of those feelings.  I could go on explaining all of the negative effects of smoking that I caused myself but that would not be creating a positive mood here.  Instead I am going to list the positive things related to quitting smoking.

 

BENEFITS OF NOT SMOKING

You become a high energy person without cigarettes.

You relax and enjoy the pleasure of relaxation without cigarettes.

You deal with your tensions without a cigarette.

You don’t have to deal with psychological dependence.

You don’t have to deal with the chemical dependency of nicotine.

You get to keep your hands free to do other things.

You enjoy a better and longer life without cigarettes.

Your body, clothes, car, house and breath smell better.

You not longer have to plan your life around your cigarette breaks.

Your food tastes better.

Your health begins to improve almost immediately.

You no longer have to go out and stand in the cold to have a cigarette.

Your spouse can kiss you without feeling like they are kissing an ashtray.

You no longer have to hide your nicotine addiction from your children.

You no longer have to get up in the middle of the night to have a smoke.

You no longer have to run out in the middle of the night to get a pack of cigarettes.

You no longer have to make certain that you have enough packs of cigarettes to get you through your day.

You have money to buy other things with since you quit smoking.

You get more accomplished because you have more time to devote to other things than smoking.

You can concentrate better without those nagging cravings.

You are a better, kinder, gentler and more patient person without tobacco.

 

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TOBACCO and JUSTICE

I just finished reading an article about the major tobacco companies and their fight with the legal system.  It seems that for years they used unlawful and illegal methods to conceal the real dangers associated with the use of their tobacco products.  Their methods included lying to the public about their knowledge that the nictoine contained in their products was highly addictive.  The fact that  they managed the amount of nicotine in their products in order to keep their customers addicted and using their products.

Included in the article is information that they have confirmed to the legal system that they used deceptive practices in their presentation to the pubic the true dangers of tobacco use.  In one of their losing legal battles they were to be required make all of their knowledge concerning the dangers of tobacco use public information and disclose those dangers, in writing, on each of the packages of their products.

However, with the tobacco companies deep financial pockets and the slow movement of the legal system it appears that this battle could rage on for years and years.  In the meantime our youth and the people already addicted to nicotine are left to their own means of survival.

If you still smoke cigarettes you might want to take notice and quit using tobacco products on your own.  The legal and political systems can only do so much.  A successful quit smoking effort is achieved only by you!!  

SURVIVOR the reality show

I usually reserve the comments on this blog for the subject of tobacco use and improving life without that use.  So permit me to go off on different tangent for this post.

 

Last night I watched the final show of this season’s SURVIVOR.    And to tell you truth I was more than pleasantly pleased with the out come.  I must admit that I have become somewhat cynical about reality shows in general because of their tendency to reward bad behavior.  They appear to actually encourage participants to lie, cheat, and steal their way to the grand prize.  The jury, which was made up of fellow contestants that had been “sent home” by various means of underhanded, deceitful, dishonest acts on the part of one of the finalist, did not award him the grand prize for his lack of honesty and integrity.  Instead it was awarded to a more deserving and less deceiving contestant.  While the show, in the past, has rewarded bad behavior it would appear that the last group of contestants that formed the jury had too much integrity to allow this to continue to happen.

 

While I am applauding the jury’s decision I do have to give the “devil his due”.  The villainous eventual loser did have a talent for “playing the game” and finding hidden “idols”.  But his constant boasting and overpowering ego was his undoing.  Even in the final part of the award ceremony he maintained that he was the Ultimate Survivor and attempted to buy the title from the winner.  I believe and hope that he really is an honest and decent man in his every day dealings with his fellow human beings and that he got ”caught up in the game” and played the “villain” to the utmost degree. 

 

One of the jurors declared that “perceived reality is not necessary reality” which is contrary to the usual statement “perceived reality is reality” and in this case was true.  Just because his antics got him to the position of a finalist they did not warrant or earn him the grand prize.

 

Last night’s jury vote gave me a glimmer of hope for the future and re-instilled in me a faith in my fellow man.  It is my hope that it just may have sent out a small message to all Americans.  Through our own real life votes we can make a difference and change the out come.

 

Thanks for allowing me to rant.  Maybe I didn’t sway too far from my purpose for this blog.  Remember, changes in our own life can be made by ourselves and for ourselves. 

I’m alive and well

 

 

 

As the Christmas season gets nearer and nearer I am having trouble leaving  Thanksgiving.  Or maybe it is the approaching of another anniversary of my successful lung cancer surgery that is causing me to be so appreciative.   On December 19th of this year it will be 26 years since that fateful day.  I don’t view it as horrible even though the initial diagnosis of having lung cancer was devastating at the time.  After a day or so of anxiety I turned the burden over to God and He took care of the problem.  Through faith and a fantastic support system of competent doctors, a loving wife and family I survived.

As the days, weeks, months and finally years have passed by I have realized that it was a blessing in disguise.  The ordeal has made me a better husband, father and person in many ways.

I only wish that my story about my nicotine addiction that is shared freely at www.quitterscanbewinners.com could persuade others not to make that “choice” of trying that first cigarette.  Or perhaps the ebook that I am offering FREE at http://simply-be-tobacco-free.com would help those already addicted break the habit.

Yes I have been fortunate and blessed.   This song should be the favorite of all former smokers, it certainly is mine.

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Hypnosis to quit smoking.

Thanksgiving has come and gone and I hope everyone had a happy, safe  holiday.  Today I am going to mention another alternative to quitting smoking that has had a lot of interest and, from what I have heard, a fairly good success rate.  I have  met a few people that have beaten nicotine addiction with this method.  My personal favorite quit smoking method is “cold turkey”(also my favorite meat) but that is another story.  After years of trying to convince folks to use that method I have come to realize that not everyone can quit smoking by going “cold turkey”.

Hypnosis, like other quit smoking aids, can be a successful method of quitting smoking if one has a true desire to quit and is determined to beat the addiciton.  It can be more beneficial to the person wanting to break their nicotine addiction because it does not use nicotine as a replacement for tobacco use.  If you are interested in giving the hypnosis method a try I say “go for it”.  Whatever method that works for you, use it.

Smokeout Day

 Today is the annual great American Smokeout Day.  The day that many people are encouraged to quit smoking for at least one day.  It is a chance to test a smokers will power and determination in giving up the deadly addiction.  Theoretically,  if a person can refrain from smoking for one complete day (24 hours) they have a good chance of quitting for good.   That is a great start on getting the nicotine out of one’s system.  In order to make the attempt to quit even better would be a three day smoke out.  That way all of the nicotine is depleted from one’s system and then all that they have to contend with is the occassional craving brought on by trigger situations.  These trigger situations can be habits of having a cigarette at certain times of the day or during certain activities such as after eating, drinking, or while driving. 

The Smokeout Day is a great way to bring  attention to the public the importance of making a effort to quit smoking.  For more information on this subject Click here

Breath and Breathing

Breath and the act of breathing is generally underrated in the grand scheme of life.  It is usually only when one’s breath is limited to the point of pain or anxiety that they take steps to improve its function.  In my case it was the diagnosis of lung cancer.  Numerous times and long before my diagnosis I had been stricken with bouts of bronchitis and shortness of breath, due to my smoking addiction.  But the actual words “you have lung cancer” have a definite effect on your entire being.

Having lung cancer can be a devastating disease.  I was lucky and blessed with a great doctor and a fantastic support system in my wife and family.   Everything that I went through during that period of my life was a learning experience and breathing was not only essential to living but also in living better.  One of the instruments used in my recuperating process was a Spirometer.  A spirometer is an apparatus that measures the volume of air that the lungs (in my case lung) inspire and expire.   Use of the spirometer was prescribed at least three times a day.  Three times a day was not enough for me.  Since the device was setting next to my bed and later on my night stand I would do the exercise as often as I desired.  My feelings were if three times was good the more I used it the better.  The extra effort paid off.   On one of my annual checkups the doctor informed that my one lung had the capacity of 55%.  I didn’t think that was a very good number until he told me that most people with two working lungs seldom reached 35% capacity for both lungs.

Do not take your breath and breathing for granted.  As in most things it is only when we almost lose it that we appreciate it the most.  One of my tips in quitting smoking is to take deep, long breaths and hold them for as long as you can.  It not only builds up lung capacity but it has a calming effect on you.

For more tips on quitting smoking and improving your breathing click here

Electronic Cigarettes

 Hello,

Just spent two wonderful weeks with my bride in the great state of California.  Had the privilege of attending the Miniature Motorsports Racing Association West Coast National Minicup and Babygrand (stockcar)racing event.  Results can be found at http://www.mmraracing.com.   I am so thankful that I have been blessed with good health, good friends and the ability to do such things over the years since quitting smoking and beating lung cancer.  Next month my bride and I will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary.

But this blog is not all about me.  It is intended to help those that wish to quit smoking.    It is a known fact that in order to quit smoking one has to permanently stop using tobacco and introducing nicotine into one’s system.  A simple truth but somtimes difficult to understand without some help or helpful information.  And that brings me today’s message.

The Electronic Cigarette or the e-cigarette is an electronic device that does contain nicotine but not tobacco and one uses the device like they would a cigarette to deliver nicotine to their system.  It seems to be very popular among smokers that are trying to quit smoking but just can’t quite get the job done.  It also seems to be a fairly profitable product from the information that I have been able to gather.  In my humble opinion the users are transferring their expensive  nicotine addiction from one product to another. 

To learn more about the electronic cigarette and the dangers related to the use of it go to http://whyquit.com/pr/032908.html